Good vs Bad: with Time for Life
There are good times and bad times. Good and bad depend upon how you perceive them to be. When you want to have a good time, you want your friend to get what he/she deserves. It eventually turns out to be for your own happiness because it may not be what he/she actually wanted but what you want him/her to have. Thus him/her having what he/she deserves gives him/her bad times which are though good times for you and in turn you get a bad time because your friend is not having a good time. So is it his/ her confusion or yours which falsely determines what should make him/her happy (in his/ her case) or what he/she deserves (in your case). And it is in this futile attempt to make him/her realize how much you care for him/her, you know if the person you are dealing with is good for your life or bad. If your good times cannot bring good to him/her then it is better to leave him/ her than to moan for him/her or with him/her and if the good and bad times match perfectly then congratulations…you win a good life irrespective of good times and bad times.
Good Day !
Saamir Gupta
I don’t know why but i think its very wrong to judge your friends on the basis of matching what you think they deserve and what they wanted for themselves and just leave them on this basis…
It goes like the other way..if you really wanted that your friend will remain your friend then you should try find a midway to match your good time with him leaving your ego away with..
its d ugly truth..n got to face it… if a person cnt even know wht wud make mk his frnd happy den hw can he b regrded as a gud frnd??